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Anna would have the coffee on her head after the can't you take a hint comment. No gifts needed.
Edit: wow :/ it ended amusingly
Last story op to company. HaHaHa. Oh your serious let me laugh harder HAHAHAHAHA.
Don’t reward their behavior with a present. They kept yo-yo-ing an invitation, and being facetious as well as rude. Who are they to lecture OP about etiquette after pulling that nonsense!?
I do believe that bride needs a copy of Emily Post's book of etiquette.
Too many people desperately needing work, perfect welcoming invitation for predatory employment practices and its toxic culture.
The Golden Rule: he who has the gold makes the rules
Least bad outcome for the wedding saga.
Martin not really ready to move on with his personal life. OP was a Miss Right Now (aka lonely guy rebound) and not thought of, let alone treated, as Miss Right
In my (admittedly limited) experience you are still expected to give a gift under a couple of circumstances.
1) if you back out last minute (within a week of the date) for a reason that’s not the bride or groom were a-holes.
2) if there is an emergency day of the wedding and you were fully intending to go had that not happened.
Also one and are modified by the proximity role. If you’re just somebody else’s plus one and don’t know the bride or groom/aren’t family then no gift even if you meet the above two circumstances.
Bride to be sounds like a cold witch that should be left at the altar
You can't have your cake and eat it too = you can't uninvite a person from a wedding and still expecting gifts that's a hell to the NO. There's no rule stating that uninvited guests have to still buy gifts in the real world
Getting the feeling that Anna is one of those people who thinks everyone else also schemes social interactions just like she does. Not only was she trying to be a kiss ass, she then lied to manipulate the situation, got mad because she assumed OP was also trying to take advantage, and then wanted to extort a gift out of it. These kinds of people don't need a reason to dislike anyone because they don't really trust anyone either. Not outright evil or anything, just really mistrustful and makes assumptions about other people that aren't true. If Anna had just been upfront from the beginning, none of this would have been an issue.
Anna is such a rude b****. Honestly I will be shocked if the marriage lasts.
I would send a check for $.02 as a wedding gift, with a card saying I hope my gift properly reflects how highly the bride seems to think of me
I'll send a envelope with a picture of a butt and write congratulations on your happy day. Sure it not anything they would want but it the thought that counts.
That second story was actually pretty funny. Was that really serious???
I've heard the rule "if you get an invite and can't come, send a gift" but only in drama romance movies with the "fake engagement" plot. The couple pretend to get together to throw a wedding, either one needs to appease a grandparent and the other gets the gift after the break up or the plan is to get the gift and split them. They even end up sending invites to famous people to get rich gifts but sometimes the famous person shows up instead.
I've never heard it IRL, but then again I don't get many invites to weddings since I moved out of state from childhood friends and lost contact as they had kids.
Id not waste my money on the female that let me know you arent welcome. Id never spend a dime on that witch.
Laughing my but off over this evil sister response . LOVIN THIS NEW SUBREDDIT‼️‼️‼️‼️
The custom is in the event you were actually invited, accepted, and the couple plans for you to come (pays for your headcount at the ceremony/venue) then you have to bow out for some reason (health, conflict, whatever) and now they will likely have empty seats. The gift is an apology for canceling when you wished to come. Also if you are truly close to the couple you might send a gift if you just can't make it because they are important to you and you are happy for them. Neither of these are the case. She uninvited you in a hostile way. You have no obligation even in the strictest etiquette.
LG went off for this one! Loved how he said Etiquette Manuals
1st story NTA and don't send a gift…bride expected you to decline and send a gift but instead you accepted. Bride is looking for cash and gift grab. If you had a previous commitment and close to couple it's OK to decline and send a gift.
First: OP must be gorgeous/ shapely/ sexy/? making Andy praise her looks in front of Bridezilla! Who probably needs antacid tablets every day hearing her fiance talk about OP? Tsk tsk tsk 🙂
I am betting this marriage doesn't last long given Bridezilla's sly and snide character. Poor Andy.
NTA do not send a gift. Where is this wedding etiquette? They can buy their own toaster we give em permission and if their fancy a four slot toaster. Play stupid games win stupid prizes or buy your own stupid prizes
Honestly, I would accept the invite and wear an amazingly gorgeous outfit and be the life of the party this 'Zilla would inevitably suck out.
And I wouldn't bring a present because I AM the gift.
Anna was being racist when she said OP didn't understand the customs of the country. OP is more Australian than Anna.
Lol "its against company policy to quit on a friday". The only response to that can be "good thing I will no longer be subject to company policy!"
OP is in the clear to both decline and not send a present. She wasn't properly invited, was told to decline by the bride, never accepted an invitation, and doesn't owe Anna anything.
She rudely rescinded an invitation to you and she expects a present? Ridiculous.
OMG I totally missed this one 😳 😭 oh well nice surprise so 2 stories in one day let's go!
I give a gift when I am close to people and if I can afford it. If I am invited to an affair, I assume it is because they want the gift of my presence.
I will never buy into the idea that guests are obligated to make it profitable for the partying couple to party.
So, if you don't want me to come, don't invite me. If you do want me to be there, do invite me.
This is completely separate from gifts.
Looks to me that the bride is inviting people and then later uninvited them in order to get presents out of the non guests
If you're invited but have to decline on your end, yes you send a present to the new couple. If you have your invite rescinded by the bride/groom, then no gift is expected/to be given.
If a crazy bride like 'Anna' did it to try and get a present from the boss' gf, and acted like a bitch as she did, then no gift and no card, nothing. Bridezilla can bugger off with her greed.
Send them a cookie basket and wish them a happy future
So what does wedding etiquette say about being rude to someone, expecting them to read your mind, but still expecting a gift? Anna can get stuffed. Guess it's moot now, but glad she apologized. But OP's evil sister is awesome! Her partner better marry that woman! 🙂
Send them a gift. Something like "Miss Manner's guide to polite society for beginners" or whatever it would be.
Wow, OP's family had brilliant ideas, lol.
Say you will try again on the second, or maybe the third marriage, now it seem most marred couples have at least one person is on another wedding.
If the soon to be married couple really have THIS communication issues, they are not going to last :1
If the bride basically tells her she doesnt want her at the wedding, then she cant expect a present from someone she doesnt want at the wedding.